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I have traded my own money for the past twelve years. \u00a0And there was the Asian Financial Crisis, the Bursting of the Internet Bubble, 2002, Hybrid, Penny Spreads, the near recent collapse of our financial markets, and now the era of big government irresponsible spending causing havoc on the world’s currencies. \u00a0I know most enter trading because they seek riches. \u00a0Almost all will never make it for this very reason.<\/p>\n

The trading community is reading all the wrong books. \u00a0How many traders have read The Talent Code<\/a>, Enhancing Trader Performance, Drive<\/a>, Talent is Overrated<\/a>, Malcolm Gladwell, The Black Swan<\/a>, Learned Optimism<\/a>, Ayn Rand?\u00a0Money, money, money is too often a trader’s goal. \u00a0How foolish. \u00a0How limiting.<\/p>\n

Yesterday a new trader saw I had had a very profitable day. \u00a0He asked,”How was your day?” <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I sighed and said, “Ahhh.” <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

The new trader responded, “Seems like that was one of your better days.” <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I returned, “Why do you say that?”<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

“Because you made a lot of money. \u00a0How did you do it?”<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I retorted, “I am just trying to get better.” \u00a0I had to go an journal some more and consider whether it really was a good day for me.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

You see a good day for me is one where I get better. \u00a0Did I learn something about myself and the market? \u00a0My journey everyday is to learn, to improve, to do more of what I do best. \u00a0I am trying to master this craft called trading. \u00a0I understand that I will never get there. \u00a0And I accept this. \u00a0But I will keep reaching for that elusive goal of mastery.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Why do you trade? \u00a0If it is not to master your trading, you will never reach your potential. \u00a0And you will have a very unhealthy, short lived, unsatisfying trading career.<\/p>\n

Your life is what you do and not how much you make. \u00a0I am just trying to get better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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