{"id":36134,"date":"2014-02-14T17:35:54","date_gmt":"2014-02-14T22:35:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/?p=36134"},"modified":"2021-05-07T10:04:39","modified_gmt":"2021-05-07T14:04:39","slug":"this-wasnt-a-good-week","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/this-wasnt-a-good-week","title":{"rendered":"This Wasn&#8217;t a Good Week!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mike,<\/p>\n<p>Hello. This wasn&#8217;t a good week. I made a lot of mistakes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1. I didn&#8217;t stick to my plan and took several trades without a clear plan.<br \/>\n2. I felt anxious most days. I was aware, and did some exercises to clear my mind, but after the first losing trade, I lost my focus.<br \/>\n3. I feel frustrated from not being able to have a good day after seeing so many opportunities and not sticking to my methodology from the past week.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If this is how you feel after this week of trading, you are not alone.<\/p>\n<p>Also, this is how we all felt when we first started as traders, even often as developing traders.<\/p>\n<p>Further, even experienced traders can feel this way and engulf frustrating weeks. And isn&#8217;t this worse when the market seems to just go up and up? What is it about strong trading weeks that breeds more frustration with our trading? I will leave that for another post at a later date and get back to our topic.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s suggest an exercise to build a road to more positive and constructive thoughts. Ever sit next to a carping couple who berate, admonish, and belittle others in their life? This ruins your meal. Today I sat next to two lovely Brits who started every sentence with &#8220;lovely&#8221; or &#8220;brilliant&#8221; or &#8220;darling.&#8221; By far my best breakfast of the week (thank you, Sarabeth&#8217;s).<\/p>\n<p>What trade did you make this week where you had a clear plan and felt in control of your risk\/reward? Write that trade down in detail. Study it. Relive how it felt to be in such a trade. Envision more trades like this next week.<\/p>\n<p>Now go do something special for your significant other.<\/p>\n<p>You can be better tomorrow than you are today!<\/p>\n<p>Mike Bellafiore<\/p>\n<p>Related blog posts:<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/how-to-get-back-in\">How to Get Back In<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/find-the-setups-that-fit-your-personality\">Find the Setups That Fit Your Trading Personality<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/One-Good-Trade-Competitive-Proprietary\/dp\/0470529407\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1375715301&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=one+good+trade\">One Good Trade<br \/>\n<\/a><\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/PlayBook-Inside-Think-Professional-Trader\/dp\/0132937646\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1390507658&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=the+playbook+mike+bellafiore\"><em>The PlayBook<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/mikebellafiore\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/twitter-badges.s3.amazonaws.com\/follow_me-c.png\" alt=\"\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nNo relevant positions<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mike, Hello. This wasn&#8217;t a good week. I made a lot of mistakes. &nbsp; 1. I didn&#8217;t stick to my plan and took several trades without a clear plan. 2. I felt anxious most days. I was aware, and did some exercises to clear my mind, but after the first losing trade, I lost my focus. 3. I feel frustrated &#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/this-wasnt-a-good-week\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":144,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1499,682],"class_list":["post-36134","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general-comments-2","tag-trading-performance","tag-trading-psychology","no-post-thumbnail"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.1.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>This Wasn&#039;t a Good Week! | SMB Training<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.smbtraining.com\/blog\/this-wasnt-a-good-week\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"This Wasn&#039;t a Good Week! | SMB Training\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Mike, Hello. 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